Poly dating definition
Not only does everyone love differently, but we all find fulfillment in different ways.
Mono/poly pairings aren’t exactly doomed to failure, but the inherent dynamics are much more challenging than relationships in which both parties share similar love-styles.
She just learned how to deal with those uncomfortable emotions without taking it out on either of us.
Some mono-metamours get overwhelmed with jealousy and impose rules like DADT (don’t ask, don’t tell), often to create the illusion of monogamy while in a relationship with a polyamorous person.
In turn, the poly person has to live up to the challenge of respecting each lover’s boundaries while nurturing each relationship to its fullest potential.
No matter what, you must be prepared to be nice to your partner’s partners, just as they’d better be nice to you.