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What advice would you have for a couple that is experiencing marital problems due to the fact that one partner’s brain is wired differently? "I need you to take out the trash because I'm cooking dinner." "It upsets me when you ignore me for video games because it makes me feel like you'd rather play games than be married to me. There's a quiz you can both take that will tell you your love language, which was crazy eye-opening for me and my husband.• Anonymous said... Read everything about it, have someone to talk to, have your OWN free time and try to be as rational as you can when you talk to him which you have to do when you know he is in the "listening mode". One thing that helps me is to write my thoughts and feelings down, then have him read them.And there is a significant amount that is lost in translation leaving the non- aspire partner feeling not understood, not cared for and even unloved.My support group was the best thing that ever happened to me. We managed OK for 16 years but a lot of things fell into place in hindsight once I had the diagnosis. I must say this has been the biggest challenge in my entire life. This gives me time to calm down and think about how I want to say something.Although I do love my husband dearly, I am finding myself slipping into feelings of resentment quite often. Also, you need to give logistical reasons for things, at least I do.Unfortunately, my wife was also ready for sleep at that time.
Although a person with AS can tell they've angered or disappointed you, they rarely understand why.
My partner has aspergers and honestly its not much of a relationship.
Well, at least the camping trip with a few augmentations from my mind. Well, at least the camping trip with a few augmentations from my mind.
I'm asking for help because I can't do everything myself." "You cook, I clean. I'm married to adhd and asperger for 13 years Not easy but very possible! My husband says I am his dream girl and he wouldnt change a thing about me.
This is our agreement." "You can't be around chemicals, so you have to sweep, vacuum, and do the laundry." Getting emotional usually frustrates and/or shuts my husband down. Sure we didnt know I had as when we got married or for years but it sure helps to know and learn how to communicate better.* Anonymous said...